Friday, September 16, 2011

Just Sew You Know

Being home without a job, I've been trying to keep myself entertained by crafting. First I got out all my scrapbooking things and worked on my scrapbook from the semester I spent in Cork, Ireland on study abroad...back from August - December 2006. Talk about slow! It lasted about two weeks and I got a couple of pages done. I am now on my Amsterdam trip section which I took at the end of August/beginning of September. I have since gotten bored and moved on but I'm sure I'll be back to it next week since I've finished my big project (see bottom of post).

My next creative venture took me back to my sewing of mini stockings. I had been doing them by hand but have trouble making curves look, well, curvy! I keep getting squarish kinks. So I decided to try using a sewing machine. The problem is, I have absolutely no idea how to use a sewing machine. My mom gave me a crash course on her 1957 Singer and I think I'm making slow progress! I made this pin cushion last week by cutting out a heart shape with a stencil, sewing it most of the way, turning it right side out and stuffing it with shredded cotton balls. I then enlisted the help of my mom to sew it shut since I don't know how to make the thread disappear. I think that'll have to be my next lesson! What do you think?


My next crafty task is redecorating my bedroom. I started Sunday and primed and painted my room. Now I'm cleaning out my closet! I got a beautiful headboard from Pier 1 today and my next mission is to find new curtains/blinds and maybe a new light fixture. I think that will be my adventure next week. My dad still needs to do some touch ups on the ceiling (since I'm so over painting I refuse to do it) and then we can finally move my furniture back in. Post to come soon!

Thursday, September 15, 2011

What Not To Do When...

Today there was a great article on UK Yahoo! Travel titled "Things not to do abroad". Check it out for some great tips! There are some things you use in your everyday life that could be offensive to someone else!

Things not to do abroad

By Laura Tait

When you visit another country and can’t speak the language, your instinct is often to reply using actions to explain what you want. However, this can go horribly wrong... not all gestures are universal, and something very innocent could have a very different meaning in another country. Here are a few traps to avoid...



Putting your thumbs up

Where to avoid doing it: Thailand
What it means in the UK: ‘I agree’ or ‘nice one!’ Or, if you’re standing on a roadside, ‘can I have a lift please...?’
What it means in Thailand: Na na na-na na. It’s basically the Thai equivalent of poking your tongue out at someone so it could be perceived as a very childish sign of condemnation. It is also considered to be an obscene gesture in Iraq and Iran.


Holding up your palm towards someone

Where to avoid doing it: Greece
What it means in the UK: Usually ‘stop’, sometimes a slight wave, occasionally a Jerry Springer-style ‘talk to the hand!’
What it means in Greece: I’m imitating smearing your face with excrement. That’s not an exact translation, but the gesture is thought to be a remnant of Byzantine times when people could taunt shackled criminals by actually doing that. Either way, holding your palms out towards a person is a highly insulting gesture.

Patting on the head

Where to avoid doing it: Sri Lanka
What it means in the UK: A gesture of affection or fondness, usually administered to a small child.
What it means in Sri Lanka: Because the top of the head is the highest point of the body in the Buddhist faith (it is thought to be where the spirit exists), touching the top of a person’s head is massively invasive and inappropriate. This is the same for most predominantly Buddhist countries.


Holding your thumb between two fingers

Where to avoid doing it: Turkey
What it means here: Nothing much, except maybe ‘Got your nose’ - a small trick reserved for particularly gullible children.
What it means there: Up yours. It is a rather aggressively rude version of giving someone the middle-finger.

Giving with one hand

Where to avoid doing it: Japan
What it means here: Whatever I’m giving you is small enough that I can fit it in one hand, so that’s what I’ll do.
What it means there: ‘Whatever.’ A one-handed presentation might be taken as dismissive in Japan - it’s the done thing to make offerings with both hands, whether it’s a gift, a business card or passing someone the remote control. It indicates you are attentive and sincere in the offering.

Crossing your fingers

Where to avoid doing it: Vietnam
What it means here: ‘Hopefully’. Or more literally, ‘fingers crossed!’ Or in some cases a reference to the National Lottery.
What it means there: The crossed fingers are said to resemble female genitals (?!) in Vietnam so it is considered to be a particularly obscene gesture, especially when done while looking at or addressing someone.

Asking someone to come hither

Where to avoid doing it: The Philippines
What it means in the UK: Come here
What it means in the Philippines: It has the same meaning but you’d probably only use it on dogs - to use it with a person is highly derogatory and suggests you consider them to be a subservient inferior. Also to be avoided in Japan, where it is thought to be disrespectful and in Singapore, where it symbolises death.

Taking someone’s photo

Where to avoid doing it: Chamula in Mexico
What it means in the UK: I want to capture this moment forever, and you’re a part of it. Say cheese.
What it means in Chamula: If someone smashes your camera to smithereens after you snap them it’s not because you didn’t get their good side - it’s because of their belief that being photographed steals their soul. Camera smashing is therefore not uncommon, and some tourists have even been known to be arrested. This is also the case in certain African countries, such as in rural Ghana.

Finishing your dinner

Where to avoid doing it: China
What it means here: That was so tasty I couldn’t leave any. Either that or you’re very polite and forced it down so as not to offend.
What it means there: I want more please. Leaving no food on your plate is indicative to the host that you haven’t had enough and it’s likely they will give you more food and keep serving it until you leave some on your plate. Even if you’re not totally full up, you should leave a small amount on your plate to show you’re satisfied. This is true of any Asian country actually.

Monday, August 1, 2011

Tipping Across the World

I found a great article today on tipping. It is from a British perspective (so unfortunately it leaves out that country but you can see my previous article on my guesswork of British tipping) but I thought I would share. I always find tipping extremely confusing as it is different everywhere you go. Here are a few samples. You can find the original article from Yahoo! Travel UK here.

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Australia and New Zealand
Tipping is not widely expected, and may even cause [offense] to some. However, tipping in restaurants is becoming more common, and a 10% tip for good service will be appreciated by restaurant and bar staff. Taxi drivers and hairdressers do not expect a tip.

Egypt
One of the first words I [learned] when I went to Egypt was ‘baksheesh'. Literally meaning ‘spread the wealth', this is Egypt's monetary way of saying thank you for services rendered. Tipping is discretionary, but a couple of Egyptian pounds . . . here and there goes a long way. Porters, tour guides and waiters all appreciate baksheesh, and whether it's for a meal or for someone carrying all those purchases you made in the souk back to the hotel, every penny counts. Remember to carry round small change and ask for small denominations when changing your money. Small bills are a prized possession in Egypt because, obviously, no one gives change for a tip. One exception is taxi drivers, who, as my Egyptian friend says, are usually rude anyway, and will probably try to rip you off. So, needless to say, don't tip them.

France
Service is included by law in France, and your bill may state 'service compris' to indicate this. In any case, it is polite to round up the bill to the nearest euro, or to add 10% for exceptional service. Taxi drivers and porters will always appreciate a couple of Euros for efficient service. However, watch for signs that say ‘Pourboire Interdit', which means that tipping is forbidden.

Greece
In Greece, although a service charge is automatically included in your bill when eating out, this does not necessarily mean that it will go to the waiters and waitresses. So, if you're satisfied with your meal, a tip of 8 - 10% is customary. Bear in mind that during the Christmas and Greek Easter holiday periods a service ‘bonus' of 18% will be added to your restaurant bill as a holiday extra for the waiters. When [traveling] around, rounding up your taxi fare to the nearest Euro is also the norm.

Germany
Although a service charge is included (appearing on your bill as ‘bedienung'), it is the norm to tip up to an extra 10% of the bill, especially in upmarket restaurants. One word of advice. Never say ‘danke' unless you are really appreciative of your meal, because more often than not, this will be interpreted by the staff as a signal to keep the change. In addition, hand your tips to the staff when paying the bill instead of placing it on the table as you leave . . . In taxis, add a Euro or two to the total to keep the cabbie smiling.

Italy
When dining in restaurants, a 10 - 15% service charge (coperto) may already be included in your bill. If that is the case don't feel obliged to add any more, and if not, a 10% gratuity is sufficient. In many Italian cafés, you will often pay more to sit down and enjoy your coffee or gelato ice cream rather than standing at the bar anyway. So, if you do sip your coffee or hot chocolate while sitting down, an extra €0.50 is a sufficient tip (you won't find better hot chocolate than in Italy, but that's another story). Smaller trattorias and pizzerias don't expect a gratuity, and tipping a small family-run business may even cause [offense]. Taxi drivers also do not expect a tip. When I attempted to leave one in Florence my friend practically slapped the coins out of my hand. Again, however, rounding up to the nearest Euro is fine, or if your cab driver helps carry your bags you may want to extend this to a couple of Euros.

Japan
The Japanese are pretty clear cut when it comes to tips. Any monies left are more likely to cause [offense] than gratitude. The number stated on the bill is what you should pay. No more. No less. Nuff said.

Spain
Service charges are included in the food prices on the menu in Spain, and tipping is a matter of personal choice. Most people leave some small change if they're satisfied and 5% is usually plenty. It's common to leave small change at bar and café tables, or if you eat tapas or sandwiches at a bar - just enough to round the bill to the nearest Euro.

[And for an interesting bit, here's what they say about US!]

USA
Tipping is serious business in the States. Many service staff get no more than minimum wage, and rely on tips to supplement their income. One of my colleagues (whose name shall remain anonymous) was actually chased out of a diner because they didn't leave a big enough tip when eating. So, tip generously, and often. You should leave a 15% minimum tip in diners, restaurants and cafes, and if service is really good then 20% is more the norm. In bars, slipping the bartender around a dollar per drink will ensure that service will never be a problem. And finally, when out and about in the States, tipping an extra 15% to your taxi driver is the norm.
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Having been a waitress for a bit (it's a job I believe everyone should work at once along with some type of customer service position like a clothing store), in the US it is EXTREMELY insulting to get less than 15%. That means, to the waiter/waitress, that you did not do a good job (but, of course, if they were terrible leave them 10% or less). Servers can get extremely upset about it.
The only one I'm not sure about is $1 for every drink at the bar. That's a bit ridiculous. I do about every other drink or every couple of drinks (but always for the first one). Drinks at bars are already ridiculously expensive.

*some words have been changed - marked with [] or italicized.

Saturday, July 16, 2011

Nearly Goodbye

It's nearly goodbye time. It's my last weekend in Edinburgh already. I'm ready to go home...just not to go home and leave forever. The weather has been pretty great the last couple of weeks but right now we're on a rainy spell and it's been pouring. Perhaps the city is just sad to see me go...

Today my flatmates and I went into town and shopped and finally had tea and cake at a shop we're been wanting to visit. I've been to Accessorize about 5 times this week. I bought a new travel bag (pictured below) and a computer sleeve (which ended up being too small - such a shame because it was so cute!). When I went back today to return the sleeve I ended up getting a really adorable necklace in the shape of an owl. It was something different that I normally wouldn't buy even if I liked it because I wasn't sure if I could pull it off but I'd seen it when I went in with my cousin on Wednesday and again when I went back on Thursday to get the bag I'd seen the day before. My eye kept coming back to it and I would just go stand in front of it forever. We went back today and I whined over it and we went to a different store and it was there too so I finally gave in!


He is just so adorable and chubby! I picked one that was extra fluffy and am really happy I got it. His name is Auwl (pretty much Sophie's Northern Irish pronunciation of owl which is awesome and we can't replicate). And the bag is perfect because it's big enough to fit my computer and a few other things (I've lost the space in my backpack due to the duvet I'm bringing home so I don't have to pay to ship it). I just wish my laptop wasn't so huge and I could have kept the laptop sleeve! It looked like a post card. I think making one myself will be something I'll have to explore when I get home...

On Thursday I submitted my dissertation on the ERASMUS programme (a European Union study abroad programme). [pause for cheering] It's quite surreal to hand it in. I hope I did well but no matter what, I know I learned a lot from it and think I could really apply things from it to study abroad/international education organisations (I'm going to have to get used to going back to putting z's in) in the US.

Speaking of which, I've officially begun my job search. I had planned to try and get out of Maryland but it looks like fate could keep me securely there. We'll see... Let's just hope the small issue of our degrees not being awarded until November won't affect anything since I won't officially have my master's degree until then. But my supervisor said he'd write me a letter which is great.

My flight is on Wednesday morning and I've just got to pack and clean. Tomorrow I'm going for drinks with some friends to say goodbye. It'll be hard for sure!

Monday, June 20, 2011

30 days to go...

Today marks the start of my thirty day countdown. Thirty days to write, finalise, and submit my dissertation and thirty days until I'm back home. Today is my kitty Zeus' 9th birthday so thirty more days until I get to cuddle him. Zeus LOVES boxes (and items similar to boxes) so here is a compilation of some of his cutest box pictures.

 
 
 


 

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Mom's Visit #3

Lastly, Mom and I took a trip to the Lake District in north-west England. It's a beautiful area and has been the prime vacation spot for hundreds of years! It's talk about in a lot of Jane Austen's novels. We just went to Windermere and stayed in the cute town of Bowness-on-Windermere and took a few day trips into the neighbouring towns.

 
 

 

 
 
 
 

  

All in all it was a great weekend with Mom! I miss her already!

Monday, May 30, 2011

Mom's Visit #2

The first weekend Mom was here, we took a quick trip down to Newcastle to see my cousin Julie and her husband Andreas. I had stayed with them for Thanksgiving but it was the first time Mom was able to see their new place in England! On Sunday we took a trip to Alnwick Castle (which had an amazing falconry presentation), the seat of the Duke and Duchess of Northumberland. It was a really awesome castle although we were mildly disappointed because the website promoted it as a Harry Potter castle but it turns out only a small scene from the first book was filmed there.

Andreas, Julie, and me
Whitley Bay

Alnwick Castle



 
 
 

 

Newcastle